Happiness is more than thinking positive thoughts

What have neuromarketing and epigenetics to do with happiness and positive thoughts

When someone asks me “What defines your happiness?”, then for me it’s often studying and learning new things. Last year my focus point was neuromarketing. This year it is epigenetics

Those 2 disciplines both have the primal brain as their object of study. Neuromarketing got my interest from a business point of view, where epigenetics triggers me on a personal level.

Epigenetics is a new discipline that studies the influence of our environment and our behavior on the activation of genes. It shows that anything we do, eat, drink or think can make us stronger or weaker. 

Genes change 0,5% every 100.000 years. That’s very little, isn’t it? Not much we can do about it. However, we are able to change our behavior and our response to events.

Happiness is not trying or finding, it’s deciding

Happiness is not about getting all you want, it is about enjoying all you have.

The dictionary defines happiness as “the state of being happy” which gives you very little information about the idea or feeling of, or state of happiness. Let’s look at some different things that happiness can be, but realize that in truth, happiness is in the mind of the beholder. 

You feel satisfied

When you are happy you tend to feel simply satisfied with your life. You think about your life and feel good about it. You feel very satisfied when you look at your life and see all the fortune you have whether it’s where you live, who you live with, or just about yourself doesn’t even matter. 

You feel content

A happy person tends to feel really content about the things in their life. They feel content about their job, their home, their things, their health. Nothing is nagging at their mind about anything causing stress. But remember happy people do have stress, they’re just better at feeling content even when things aren’t perfect. 

You are at peace

A happy person often feels a lot of peace about their life and family. They tend to know that everything will turn out okay and are good at turning negativity around to positivity. 

When your environment doesn’t suit you, change it

It’s a journey

Happiness is not a destination that you get to one day and stay at. It’s a lifelong journey that will have many ups and downs and struggles. However, overall the ups and downs of life, you manage to feel good about it. 

Your needs are met

Happiness is more than thinking positive thoughts

When a person is happy, they usually don’t even have any needs that aren’t being met to the level they want them to be met. It doesn’t mean that someone is not having a hard time. It’s all about how you make what you have to fill your needs. 

Your definition

The truth is, happiness is how you define it personally for you. It’s not about getting tons of stuff unless you want that. It’s not about finding a spouse unless you want that. It’s not about having kids unless you want that. It’s all up to you and how you define happiness. 

It’s how you act

When you are happy you tend to act in more positive ways over all. When happy, you eat better, you move more, you think differently. Don’t worry. You have it in your power to be happy where you are in your life right now.

Happiness is more than thinking positive thoughts 

Happiness is having your needs met. It’s not about having everything, or even the best. It’s about being satisfied with what you have. While at the same time being able to work for the things you want.

To really and truly feel happy, you have to start thinking positively. However, this is not enough. Your positive thoughts also have to correspond with your actions.

If you want guidance on these actions, then have a look at our program LUCKI. This is a 5-day online program that teaches you the skills to build your own happiness.

Decide on your own happiness

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