How to write with confidence

Write with confidence by hand

The other day someone asked me what gives me confidence to write. I said I don’t know. Experience perhaps? I write once a day a post on facebook. Sometimes two or three. And once every fortnight a blog. Such as this one. Writing is important for me because it keeps the grey matter fit. Which is one of AGEwithCARE’s goals.

The person who asked me the question would love to write, but felt insecure. So I explained how he could write with confidence. This blog is an extended version of my explanation.

What will you write?

You can read yourself into the theory of writing. The problem is that long before you’re done reading, you will have lost all confidence. The rules and recommendations are so numerous and complicated that they are not very helpful.

Also, never ask yourself the question: Why do I want to write? This question is totally out of order. You will never be able to come up with a satisfying answer. Just enjoy.

The question you should answer is: What will I write? Choose a subject. Preferably a subject that is closest to your ‘knowledge and experience bank’. Write about things you like, or dislike for that matter. This will give you enough confidence to start.

Whatever suits you, gives you confidence

Write on a typewriter

Okay, you’ve picked your subject? Now it’s time to design the layout of your text. Oh no, there’s another millstone on the neck of so many novice writers. Every writer has his or her peculiarities. You will have to discover yours.

Sharpen your pencil and write on a brown envelope (some of the most famous authors did this: Walt Whitman, Georges Simenon, Bukowski). Take your fountain pen out of your mouth and scribble in a notebook worth 50 euro/dollars. To write with a pencil or a fountain pen is better for you because you’re forced to use different parts of your brain at the same time. When you’re done type the results on your computer. Or read them out loud to your mobile. Best is that you try all of these.

Or start by sampling information about your subject, analyze this and write down the ideas that popped up in your head. Break down any logic that you thought was in the information. Or do just the opposite. Turn your summary into a meticulous, mathematical correct explanation with diagrams and all. Whatever suits you, gives you confidence.

For whom do you write?

As soon as someone is prepared to pay you 5000 euro/dollar for a commercial text of 500 words, you have to ask yourself: Who is my target audience? Until then, you write for yourself. Your aim must be to have fun when you write.

You should be aware though that writing with someone else in mind can boost your inspiration. Imagine you talk with someone, a relative or a friend, and write down this fictional dialogue. Or write down a fictional dialogue between two of your friends. You might even copy a discussion you witnessed.

A stepping stone to write with confidence

Write on a laptop

In the blogs of AGEwithCARE you find many examples of texts that might interest or inspire you to write your own. Some blogs dig a little deeper in a specific type of text, such as a diary or a journal. These are stepping stones that will give you more confidence to write.

If, in the beginning, you want to practice your writing skills everyday and do not want to confront others with your texts, start a diary. Write down what you do. Who you meet. What you discuss with others. What your feelings or intentions are. Diaries know no limits. You can write down whatever you please.

A more structured diary is a journal. You can pre-program a journal in many ways. You can use it to write down your daily intentions and whether you were able to achieve them. Or you can write down what you felt and how you dealt with your feelings. Or write down how you coped with a specific task.

Some professional tips

The Pulitzer prizewinning novelist Cormac McCarthy developed tips on how to write. Here are his most important rules of thumb:

  • Decide on your theme. Choose two or three points you want readers to remember.
  • Limit each paragraph to a single message. A single sentence can be a paragraph.
  • Ask a question and then progress to the answer. It’s also perfectly fine to leave questions unanswered.
  • Keep sentences short, simple and direct.
  • Avoid jargon, buzzwords or technical language. Don’t use a word repeatedly.
  • Use minimalism to achieve clarity. Remove extra words or commas whenever you can.
  • To be understood is more important than to form a grammatically perfect sentence. Use examples.
  • Don’t be overly formal.
  • When you’re done, read your text out loud. Satisfied?

Enjoy writing.

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